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The number one question I always see asked by aspiring strippers and baby strippers is basically “what do I need to do to prepare to be a stripper?” I had this question, and every question that falls under the umbrella of this question, before and during the early days of my dance career.
I remember the first time I ever danced at a strip club. I was NOT prepared. AT ALL. I wasn’t prepared mentally, physically, or emotionally. I left the club super early and cried myself to sleep LOL. I’ll tell y’all all about it one day.
I TRIED to do my research and there’s a lot of information out there on the internet, but none of it was really helpful to ME… which is exactly why I started this website in the first place. We need a resource where we can find information relevant to OUR realities. This is also why I’m super excited about this post, because it’ll hopefully help some of y’all in the way that I needed help.
As I mentioned, there’s a lot of preparation to do before you start stripping (especially if you’re a type A personality like myself). I’m gonna break down into four parts: physical preparation, mental preparation, emotional preparation, and finish off with how you need to prepare a business plan, dealing with the industry, and be fiscally smart.
I’m gonna break down into four parts: physical preparation, mental preparation, emotional preparation, and finish off with how you need to prepare a business plan, dealing with the industry, and be fiscally smart. Click To TweetDisclaimer: Every piece of advice that I give is just that. MY ADVICE. I am no expert. It’s just me, my opinions, and my good intentions.
For additional tips: 3 Major Tips for Becoming a Better Stripper
Physical Preparation
Obviously, I don’t have to explain to you guys about the physical aspect of this job and why it’s important. It’s the nature of the sex work game, baby. There’s no getting around it.
What I will say is that there’s a place in the strip club for EVERY body type. Now, it is definitely harder to get hired at most certain clubs if you don’t fit the “stripper mold (slim thick with a fat a$$ or hella thin/fit).” Another thing I will say is that customers love the EXTREMES, as in big booties, big titties, Amazonian height, etc.
What I will say is that there’s a place in the strip club for EVERY body type. Click To TweetPreparing Your Body
Preparation wise, do the obvious. Eat nutritiously and workout (I’m still working on both of these things lmao). No need for a total body transformation, you just need to take care of yourself. Taking care of yourself goes a looooong way in the strip club.
Figure out your hair situation, please. Get your wig together, slay your frontal, hide your tracks, brush your hair, whatever. Just make sure you style it and put some effort in to it. I personally keep it simple, I wear my hair down with a middle part and with natural waves. If I’m feeling up to it, I’ll curl it. Nothing fancy, I just makes sure it looks GOOD.
This also means taking care of your hair!! Take healthy hair vitamins, deep conditioning, detangling, it ALL matters and makes a difference.
When it comes to your nails, I’ve found that your toes are the most important to look after. Have them looking good! A pedicure once/twice a month will do wonders. If that’s not plausible for you, then do it yourself! Exfoliate your feet, use a pumice stone, make sure they’re moisturized, and above all else make sure your toes are always looking cute. A lot of customers have told me that feet are lowkey a deal breaker for them. I’ve gotten tipped for my nice feet and I’ve heard numerous stories of customers with foot fetishes paying BIG. In regard to your hands, just keep your hands clean, soft, and pretty. More likely than not, you’ll find me with natural, unpainted fingernails!
Let’s talk about hair… and not the kind on your head. I keep everything but that pussy hairless 👅. I shave my legs before every shift and generally shave my armpits once/twice a week. It’s dark and not too many guys touch my armpits, but I don’t worry about them too much. A lot of customers like that fact that I go “au natural” down under. Don’t get me wrong, I shave my bikini line before every shift, but I let the rest do its thing 🤷🏽♀️.
I honestly, truly feel like shaving or not shaving is up to your own personal preference. I’ve never heard of a customer reject or freak out over a dancer not being perfectly hairless. Shave if you want to, wax if you want to, do neither if you want to. The safest bet, in my opinion, is to keep anywhere that a customer touches SMOOTH. I can’t tell you the number of compliments and extra tips I get over my “super soft skin.”
This also means MOISTURIZE!!!! Please, please, please moisturize. From the inside out!! Aka stay hydrated and put lotion on immediately after getting out the shower.
Hoe tip: Don’t put moisturizer/lotion on your body before your shift. You don’t want to be slippery and you also don’t want to have any type of smell or substance that could rub off onto customers. Stripper knowledge 101.
Exotic Dance Wear
Get some poppin’ outfits, bitch. One piece or two pieces, whatever is most flattering to you and your body type. I alternate between one and two pieces, depending on my mood and my bloat lol. It’s also important to dress for your club. Whenever I’m at a black/hip hop club I go for mesh and bedazzled outfits. Whenever I’m at a white club I like to go for the lace lingerie look. Whatever you do, accentuate your assets.
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When it comes to shoes, you generally only need one pair to start out with. Heel height depends on your height and preference. I would say that the most common height is 7-inch platforms. As a baby stripper though, I would definitely start out with 6-inch heels and then upgrade once you’re comfortable dancing and walking in them. There’s really no wrong choice when it comes to dance heels, the general rule is just don’t wear heels that you would wear outside of the club. You need a heel with a platform!! Your feet will thank you.
The number one dance shoe brand in the industry is Pleasers. They durable and come in a thousand different heights, colors, bedazzles, etc. You find the my favorite pair here.
I bet you’re asking where tf you’re supposed to find dance wear??? Most cities have lingerie/exotic wear stores. A lot of dancers get outfits from Victoria’s Secret. Adult stores like Cindie’s and Adam & Eve also sell lingerie outfits and oftentimes shoes.
You have to pay to be paid – A stripper proverb
Unless you’re thrifty and use a matching panty and bra set and have an extra pair of platform shoes laying around, you’re going to have to dish out a lil cash money to buy all these things. Generally speaking you’re looking at $50-$100 if you’re being mindful and if you really want to look the part and show out straight out the gate, then you’re looking at $100-$200 for everything that you need.
Generally speaking you’re looking at $50-$100 if you’re being mindful and if you really want to look the part and show out straight out the gate, then you’re looking at $100-$200 for everything that you need. Click To TweetPreparing to Dance:
Like I mentioned, I’m a total type A gyal and I LOVE to plan and be prepared. For me, this included practicing my ~exotic dancing~. I did this by watching youtube videos on how to give a lap dance, sexy pole dancing and floorwork, and learning new booty tricks. Those are basically the core components of being a “good dancer.”
I practiced giving lap dances on an imaginary customer to similar music that I knew the club would be playing.
I found my passion and skill for twerking by doing it everywhere and anywhere lol. It’s great to learn how to twerk from basically any position.
TBH, when it comes to pole and floor work, the best and, dare I say, only way you’re going to learn those things is by being on stage at a club. Sure, you can watch videos on youtube, practice at home, and even take pole dancing classes, but the only way you’re going to discover and perfect your stage presence is by being on stage.
Mental Preparation
Woo-eee do you need to mentally prepared for what you’re about to get yourself into.
Practice makes confidence. Practice your moves, get your muscles used to the memory. Role play, with a real friend or an imaginary friend, giving lap dances, interacting with customers, etc.
Get into the hustler mind set. Making money as a stripper is 60% hustle and 40% looks. Fight me on that. By hustle, I mean knowing how to sell yourself. Turning their fantasy into your profit. No one can tell you how to hustle, it’s truly something that’s learned on the job. BUT you can go in with tips and tricks that will help you discover and advance your hustle.
Get into the hustler mind set. Making money as a stripper is 60% hustle and 40% looks. Click To TweetGet yourself into a bad bitch mindset. To make it in this industry you really gotta act you’re Trina aka THE BADDEST BITCH. You think I’m playing, but you’ll see. And if you don’t feel like you’ve got it goin on… fake it till you make it, hoe.
The number one way I get into this mindset is through music. Check out 01 Playlist and this playlist that I play while getting ready for work and on the way!
Finally, and lowkey most importantly, you need to set your boundaries before you step foot in the club. I can’t tell you what’s the norm at your particular club in your particular city. You just need to think long and hard about what you’re willing to accept and do for money and what you’re not. And guess what… It’s OKAY if you get in the club and change your mind. That’s totally fine. Truly reevaluate your boundaries every couple weeks once you start stripping. It’s imperative to taking care of yourself mentally and physically.
If you are feeling nervous or have anxiety over stripping check out my post on overcoming anxiety before going to work for strippers!
Emotional Preparation
Y’all know I had a breakdown after my first night dancing which is partially why I wanted to make this master post for you guys. So that y’all wouldn’t be as overwhelmed and totally blind sided like I was.
What I really wasn’t prepared for was the emotional aspect of having people touch and view my body like it was a commodity. I love that shit now (because liberation), but that first couple shifts it was really… interesting (emotionally speaking). It really took time for me to acknowledge and work past my initial shame and insecurities. I did a lot of self-reflection and found that those negative feelings were forced onto me by society and not a true reflection of what I really felt.
I can’t tell you how to emotionally prepare for this job. What I can tell you is that you need to.
Money is obviously extremely validating, but nobody talks about the flip side. There are going to be days when you don’t make any a lot of money. What we all need to remember is that these days happen and they are not a reflection of our self-worth.
Money is obviously extremely validating, but nobody talks about the flip side. Click To TweetPreparing for the Industry
Let me give y’all a quick lil rundown of the industry. Things that I wish I would’ve known beforehand
You have to pay to work.
- Tip out/house fees is the cash that you pay daily to just work at the club. Can generally range from $5-$100+ and often depends on the time that you get there.
- You’re pretty much forced (not technically in most clubs, although in certain clubs I have been forced) to tip out the DJ ($20), managers, money handler, etc. Each club does it differently, but there are certain members of the staff that you’re supposed to slide money to every night.
- SOME clubs take a certain percentage of your earnings.
Extras = doing extra shit for extra money i.e. sucking dick in the champagne room.
“Do you play?” = Do you do extras?
Favoritism is a bitch and will impact your earnings.
- A lot of times, the manager will decide who gets to go to VIP sections when celebrities come in.
Be friendly with the waitresses.
- It’ll come back to you in $$$.
Personality will get you a lot of money. Know how to hold a fucking conversation.
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Preparing for Business
Have a business plan. Please be smart with your money.
Have a business plan. Please be smart with your money. Click To TweetKnow what you’re going to do with your money. Have a monthly budget. Have a specific amount of money that you need to make for your bills and necessities, then have a specific percentage of your income that you’re going to save, and then decide how much of the left overs are for you to fuck off.
SAVE! SAVE! SAVE!
Have a specific end date in mind if you’re not planning on making this your career. Time goes by very fast in a place with no windows and it’s very easy to get sucked in to this line of work.
Keep a detailed log of your income. Log how much you paid in tip out, how much you made, when this was, and any work-related expenses such as getting your hair done, your gym membership, make up expenses, mani/pedis, any new outfits/shoes etc. Keep all of this logged for tax purposes (YES you need to pay taxes). I have an excel spreadsheet that I log all of this into after every single shift.
Hoe tip: Keeping track of appearance/body/cosmetic/work related purchases can be used as deductions come tax time which means that you’ll potentially be paying less in taxes.
The Day/Night Of
Treat yo’ self. Be good to yourself. Be kind to yourself.
Treat yo’ self. Be good to yourself. Be kind to yourself. Click To TweetTake your time getting ready, enjoy yourself and feel good.
Stay hydrated and give yourself the fuel (food) you need.
I found that you can research, read, watch, ask around, do everything you can beforehand, but no matter what nothing replaces experience and there’s just some lessons that only experience can teach.
This post only scratches the surface, so be certain that this is one of many, many posts that will give you advice, tips/tricks, and an inside look at being a sex worker. I’ll be talking more than just stripping, so stay tuned!
If you need ANYTHING at all, have any questions, concerns, additional advice etc. DON’T hesitate to leave a comment below or DM me on social media.
Hi my names lucy, I’m in a really hard time off my life atm with money n everything. I’m not a girl to take handouts I want to earn everything I have for my son and I. I’m thinking of going into stripping short term but I have a bad scar on my face do you think will affect me?
Lucy, it might have a small impact, but that impact could be positive! A lot of customers appreciate something/someone “different!”
I danced at 18 after having my child and my breast were jacked up from breastfeeding and if someone made a negative comment I would tell em more reason to pay me $…I had cosmetic surgery for my breast after 3 months of dancing … what I’m trying to say is…u will make the money to get laser for the scar and can use that as leverage for better tips. That’s what I did
Michelle, EXACTLY!
I’m looking into stripping . But I have acne scars on my face and back . Could I still do it?
I’m 18 and I want to start dancing I wanted to wait until I got my body done but financially things change so I have to dance first to get the money I need I would love more information about the dancing life
Zakirah, check out all my other posts about dancing under the “sex work” category! I’m also here if you have any specific questions!
This was so so helpful, you’re like an older sister giving me advice. love thiss
NINA!!! That’s the nicest thing anyone has ever said in a response to any of my posts! That is EXACTLY what I was going for. Thank you and let me know if there’s anything else you’d like to see on this site or need help with 💛
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I love this so much! I’m moving to Dallas from Cali and I want to pursue stripping. I’m nervous but at the same time confident… I go to strip clubs more than I do nightclubs and I’ve always loved the energy! This article helped me so much 💜
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Hey, I am an out of work rock climber. Is it possible to do stripping as a shorter-term/temporary gig? I’ve got cash from being a firefighter put away, and I am wondering if I could just roll over to Las Vegas and learn how to be stripper, get a job, and make some cash over a few months? Or is that ridiculous? I am very fit from outdoor sports, grew up as a figure skater and I am naturally good looking. It seems like a job that would come naturally to me.
Hannah,
Stripping is the perfect temp job! As long as you’re okay with getting naked and getting touched by strangers than dancing is a great fit! 😉
I’m going in for my first audition within the next few weeks and I’ve been a NERVOUS WRECK, but it’s something I’ve wanted to do for awhile. Found your post and now I feel a lot less nervous. I’m shorter than all the other girls there (5’0″). Do you think that would have a negative impact or do people like those type of things?
Lyhanna,
I’m 5’0 too!! Customers love it!
Girllllll this post came right on time. I start my first shift today at 2. I’m starting in daytime during the slow season so I can get my stage presence thanks so much for all your hoe tips I love this blog!!!!
Bri,
Thank you!! I love you :’)
I have my first shift tomorrow night. I’m nervous and have no clue what all to bring with me lol
Me as fuck, I start tomorrow morning I’m so nervous. Even though the strip club im going to be working has a “No-Touch” policy which makes me feel a little better.
Thanks
I’m glad I could help! 🙂
Do you have your own youtube channel or tutorials where you share more advice or dance moves/stage presence?
Jayda, I’m working on it!!
That would be rad! This article was helpful to me… I’m considering dancing to help me set myself up for long term goals.
I am a 5’2 tiny, but fit young (looking) girl. I have a 1970’s look about me. I do have crooked teeth but they are white and healthy. Most men seem to find that more attractive, I’ve learned that “imperfections” keep you from being boring… do you find that to be true? You touched on it, but I wanted to know if that surpasses body-build/type
Sydney,
I definitely find that things that make you stand out (whether that be imperfections, a different “look”, etc.) help you make more money!!
I just wanted to say I love your blog! I appreciate that you were straightforward and might I say the fact that you call them hoe tips are just darling to me lol. I do have an interest in stripping and have been for a bit now. My only concern is that I have dark inner thighs and unfortunately saggy breast because they are so heavy so I’ve been conflicted if stripping would be fit for me, besides that I mean I’ve been told I have a nice body, small in the waist with a big butt and thighs, but idk haha. Sorry for the ramble but once more continue with your blog it’s amazing and you’ve definitely got a fan here!
Thank you so much Callie!! I don’t think either of things you mentioned will have an impact on you as a stripper! I have DDs that sag because that’s what big boobs do!! It’s natural and most men don’t have a problem with naturally big titties. Your body sounds perfect, I would definitely go for it if it’s something you’re seriously considering! Let me know if you need any help!! 🙂
Girrlll I NEEDED this post!! I’ve been wanting to become a stripper for some time now but nervous on what it’s actually like! I used to be a cam girl but ended up quitting after my fiancé got a better job. I liked doing it and made a great amount but didn’t have as much time. Now I’m just bored at home, figured maybe if I like the attention for that maybe stripping would be similar to that. Anyways, how long do you stay on stage at a time?
Hey Allie! Stripping is super nerve racking at first, but as a cam girl I know you know it’s something that you’ll get used to! As far as being on stage it depends on the club, as some clubs have a main stage and then multiple smaller stages that are put on rotation. Most stage sets last about three songs per girl and if there’s multiple stages you just rotate from the main stage to the smaller stage for three songs each! If it’s slow or there’s not a lot of girls the DJ might put a girl on stage for four or five songs, but they go by pretty fast!
I loved your post! I am 23 and looking to become a stripper. I am very confident with my body. I am very big chested and have a big back side. I do have a belly with stretch marks though not HUGE but still there. Will that affect my chances…? Thank you.
Hi Taylor!! I doubt that you’re lil belly will prevent you from becoming a stripper! The only clubs that are super strict on their dancers being thin are the clubs in Las Vegas and then odd ones here and there throughout other major cities. Most cities are on the thick girl wave so you should be good!
Taylor if the stretch marks bother you try derma rolling. It was a life saver for me! It really helps texture wise =)
I’m going into stripping I was prepared the first two times but I’m stronger than ever you are my stripper godmother💞💞
Wasn’t prepared *
Chantae,
I “started over” so many times during my stripping career! You got this!!
I’m a bit out of shape and would be considered “plus size”. I have huge boobs, fat ass, and honestly a little stomach. That makes me very discouraged. Any advice on faking it in the club until I get my weight down?
Gia,
I promise you it won’t impact your earnings!! Especially if you’re thick, men looooove a natural body! It sounds like we have a very similar body type and I’ve never had any issues due to my lil belly. If you’re still insecure about it, high waisted bottoms and one pieces are your best friend! Your dance heels will make you look super slender too so pls don’t worry about it too much!
Definitely have been on YouTube, looking at tips and transition dances watching a lot of women who have gotten into this industry just looking at there mindset, taking there tips but I definitely agree with your post it’s best to just get an audition and see if your fit for this type of work I love your post and would like a little more insight and info about the auditions do you have to be experienced on the pole or it just depends on the club? Also clothes how many times will you change on the first night?
Liv,
No pole experience is necessary!! That pretty much goes for any club. I rarely changed outfits each night, but I know girls who changed maybe once or twice throughout the night.
Hey so I had a baby girl and I have a lot of marks on my belly does the affect it like have you personally seen girls in the clubs with stretch marks and when your a stripper do you have to be completely naked when your on stage?
Hi Lulu,
I’ve seen many women with stretch marks and the cellulite/baggy skin/tummy of pregnancy too!! There are a number of high profile and highly successful dancers who show the battle scars of pregnancy!
When it comes to being naked on stage, it totally depends on the laws of your city and club rules. A quick internet search of your city laws in regards to stripping should give you your answer!
When it comes to auditions do you have to be on stage, same for say you do get hired do you have to be on stage or can you just do lap dances?
Hi Kelsey,
Most clubs require you to go on stage, but some DJs will skip you if you pay them for each set that you want to skip, which can get costly. Plus there’s so much money to be made on stage anyways!
Hi!
Your article came at a perfect time. I want to start dancing.
I want to know, though, if I can dance as a part time job? I have a full time, day job, and was hoping to pick up dancing a couple nights a week. Do you think that would be possible?
Hi Sarah,
Dancing at night a couple times a week while having a full time job is more than possible! I know a LOT of women who do that! Dancing is the perfect job for someone looking to make money on a limited schedule!
Good luck!! 💞
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Hey so i wanna get into stripping but 1. Im not very confident 2. i have no ass and dont know how to twerk 3. my boobs arent even huge, 4. i have a belly n my body is just very awkward to me. Im 5’7 and chubby but dont have extremely nice tits or ass. Hwoever, money is extremely tight right now and Im desperate.
Is there a certain age? Can you start off as a shit girl first?
Shot girl* sorry my phone went to auto
All clubs require you to be at least 18, some require you to be 21! You can start off a shot girl first, i don’t think anyone will mind. xx
I have an interview in two days at a strip lib and and nervous. It’s a 40 min drive so I’m hoping it will pay back in gas.. they offered me a server position if I’m afraid to dance but I think I want to dance. I have $200 in my bank account and 60 of which will go towards gas 40 of which will hopefully buy me a pair of heels. I also have a job lined up as a line cook and a small cafe so I don’t get dependent on dancing. Any tips for my big day? I’m most nervous about spending that money and then being rejected but I applied online and sent in a few pictures and they called me. Eeek!!
So I’m pretty short (5’2″) and skinny, no thick ass or thighs or anything. I’m 20 but body wise look pretty young, so you think not many people are gonna like that? I’ve been told I have a very pretty face, although I don’t see it, I suppose its something. I have trouble with jobs like I can’t really do cashiering I’m so bad with math and I’m in a bad place right now. I used to joke about stripping but now I’m actually considering it because it might be all I’m good for. I just dont know if my looks are even cut out for this…
So I’m pretty short (5’2″) and skinny, no thick ass or thighs or boobs or anything. I’m 20 but body wise look pretty young, so you think not many people are gonna like that? I’ve been told I have a very pretty face, although I don’t see it, I suppose its something. I have trouble with jobs like I can’t really do cashiering I’m so bad with math and I’m in a bad place right now. I used to joke about stripping but now I’m actually considering it because it might be all I’m good for. I just dont know if my looks are even cut out for this…
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You’re so funny. Definitely made me feel better about this. I agree with the girl about you being like “an older sister” or mentor. I’m so nervous! I’m worried about people recognizing me.. has that ever been a problem? Or going to a less popular club to lower my chances of getting recognized, but not making as much.
Tay,
Thank you!! I’m so glad I could help you feel better, that’s literally what my goal is! I was also worried about people recognizing me, but lucky for me I live pretty far from all of my family (as in different countries and states lol) so I only really had to deal with people in my city recognizing me and I quickly realized that I don’t care bc I’m a total badass (and so are you!!).
So, I personally wore a wig that was VERY different from my natural hair and I always wore makeup (which I rarely do outside of work). I know a lot of girls who also wear colored contacts for the reason of anonymity. My number one suggestion would be a wig, they’re fun and you can be daring in ways you normally wouldn’t since it’s not your real hair! It doesn’t even have to be an expensive one at alll (clubs are DARK lol). You can definitely go to less popular clubs, but like you said, you might take a pay cut. If the consequences of getting “caught” at dancing will have a negative impact on your safety or wellbeing, then I would seriously suggest thinking long and hard on if this is what you want to do. But if it’s just embarrassment or the possible shame of being caught by people who don’t support women being independent boss bitches, then I would just really sit down and try and emotionally/mentally try to work through those issues that you have on that subject (easier said then done, I know). Either way, good luck!! And feel free to DM me on IG if you wanna talk in more detail about it!
How long should I wait after an audition to hear from them?
This was my first audition ever (it could have gone better lol), and the GM is supposed to be back in town today and is supposed to review it.
But I don’t know how long I should wait.
Hey Sarah,
I would try calling every other day and wait about a weeks top before giving up! Good luck!
What did you have to do for your interview/audition? I don’t really know how to do a strip dance and I need advice!
Hi Isabella, I’ve actually never had to do a traditional audition, I’ve always just walked in and got hired on the spot. If you need dance inspiration check out YouTube! But honestly, they don’t care if you can dance they just want to see how you look naked.
This was such a motivating and informational post. This read like a best friend or, like many have pointed out, a big sister, giving advice which was really reassuring. I’ve got a couple questions though. So I know typically girls get 3 songs as a rough average per set. What do you do to keep your stamina? Is it fast paced or does it just vary? My next question is, what should we expect at an audition? Any tips on nailing it? And lastly….what should I do about unsupportive boyfriend, family, friends, etc? I mean…friends and family I’m pretty comfortable with telling them like it is but not really my bf. I’ve been wanting to strip for years now and never have because of either my confidence (which has improved) or my bf. It’s been a matter of “not wanting to share”.
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I am 18, and I’m struggling with money so I can get through college. Does every club require you to do sex favours like the ‘Blowjob in the champagne room’ or does it really depend on the club? I’m super curious cause the hardest part would be that and getting completely naked. I’m just curious, since I don’t know much about this, but your blog is amazing.
Crystal,
Stripping is NOT full service sex work! NO club in the U.S. is legally allowed to require you to perform sex services such as blowjobs or sex. That’s definitely a myth and NOT a thing at all. Stripping does not involve sex acts. Period. There are strippers who do perform these things, but in no way are they explicitly encouraged by the club to do so because the club can be shut down (among other consequences) if law enforcement finds out. You can be a stripper who also gives blowjobs, but that isn’t part of the job lol. Getting naked (even if not completely) is literally the job, so if you’re serious about stripping then that’s something you’re going to have to be comfortable doing! 💕
Hi I’m 20 and I’m considering going into stripping. I’m currently in college and I’m considering this because I really need money. I’m curvy but I do have a little belly fupa lol. I heard somewhere that some clubs take dancers of all sizes so that gives me hope. I also have no dancing experience so I was wondering if this will be a concern. Do you think my body shape and dance experience will be an issue? Thank you for any advice you can give me.
Hi Tasia!
Most clubs do accept women of all sizes, but it does depend on what city your in (like in Las Vegas you have to be pretty thin to get hired at any of the popular clubs, but cities like Houston love thick girls)!
All strippers start with no experience so it honestly shouldn’t be an issue! Especially since you’re doing your research 😉
I am 17, also I wanna strip for money when I turn 18 or 19 and honestly I don’t really know if I could do it I do get alot of comments on my body I grew up only being liked for my body I even got slut shamed at age 12 to 15 all the girls hated me everyone always tells me I got a nice body but I don’t feel like I am pretty enough and I have this theory if I dance id build up my bad bitch attitude and hope I start liking my body also I was a virgin all these years but girls still wanted to call me a slut , Idk my mindset is off
Starla,
If stripping is something you really want to do then I say go for it (once you turn 18 of course)! Fuck every single person who’s ever felt the need to comment on your body growing up!!!!!! Dancing definitely helped me gain more confidence and my attitude has totally changed since I started!
Definitely get your mind right before starting though, because you WILL need to be strong in order to make it and stay safe in this industry! People, both customers and the clubs, will try to take advantage of you or make you feel like shit but you have to be strong and know your worth!
I’m curious as to of you have an idea for a meal plan… And the club I want to work at wants me to wear heels, no see through panties or bras….. How old are you as well I’d you don’t mind me asking
So happy I came across this page. I’ve worked I the industry as a cam girl for the last year but I am starting my first night as a dancer tonight! This gave me so much Insight! Thank you!
Meg,
I hope your first night went amazing!!! And no worries if it didn’t 😉💕
I love this article but how do you muster up the courage to even go in and apply . I’m not afraid of the work the thought of applying is what racks my nerves the most as well as having to audition
Taylor,
Just set a date and force yourself to go on that day. I know it’s scary bc it’s new, but I promise you it’s not as bad as you think it’s going to be. Most managers don’t even care if you can dance it’s just how you look! So even if they make you get on the stage, just look your best and move slow and sensual. And just remember all they can say is no, which isn’t a big deal at allll.
Check out my post on anxiety before work to see how I deal with my nerves before work, it may help you get the courage to audition!
Thank you I finally went and got it .. now to work a shift .. thanks again for this helpful blog
So I never went back to dance 🤦🏾♀️ I feel crazy I siked myself out by looking at the other dancers on the clubs ig and was like well I’m not going to make it .. I def need to get my confidence in check . Sure I cannot go back to that club tho
Love love your blog. I’m thinking about flying from CA to Vegas on the weekends while working a full job to earn extra income. I’ve been working on my diet and exercise have lost 20lbs but wondering if I would be considered? . Do they really only hire Victoria secret skinny or do they hire small waist/big ass type of girls?
Hey girl,
Vegas is a beast that very rarely strays from their “type.” I’ve only seen and heard of skinnnnny girls, BUT I don’t have any experience in LV and I’ve only gone to one famous club in Vegas so I can’t really say I know for sure. But I would say try it out anyways! Maybe test out the waters in CA and then think about Vegas?
I’ve always been drawn to the adult industry. I tried day shift & got very discouraged. I think at that time I had unrealistic expectations & lacked the right mindset. Now, 7 years later, I wish I had stayed & hustled harder. I’m about to turn 31 & am in a lot of financial debt. I’m considering giving it another go with a more mature, driven mindset. D’you think it’s too late at my age to enter the industry?
Kira,
It’s never too late! Go for it, you don’t want to always have that “what-if” stuck in your head for the rest of your life!
I’m about to be 33 and that was very encouraging! I was off and on dancing for years, but I feel ready now for some reason. Jay said 30 the new 20 🤑
You got this Nikki!!
No it’s not go for it big sis it’s NEVER to late to hustle or to do anything good luck in your journey you incredible woman. X
Are dancers usually nice to each other while working together? I know it’s a competitive business but are the girls usually friends or enemies?
Naomi,
It depends. Overall, no. Dancers aren’t especially nice to each other. A lot of dancers do have their bff in the club and it is often cliquey and there’s always some type of conflict/drama every night. Always be cautious when dealing with other dancers, especially if they start being nice to you for no reason. This is because there’s always someone looking to take advantage of you in the club, especially if you’re NEW new.
My advice is be nice, but don’t be friendly.
Hey I’m Nisey and I wanna start dancing. I have a goal set and I’m good with saving and logging in to keep track of my bread. I’m not shy I’m just a little worried about my stretch marks and my tits don’t sit up and I love both my tits and my stretch marks but idk how others,(men) would feel about them.
Hi Nisey,
Don’t worry about those things at all!! Men love natural bodies! You’re gonna be great, good luck!!
I wanted to start stripping but a lil bit chunky is that a problem
Nope!
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Do all clubs ask for your social security number or just I.D is required as a part of the application?
Depends on the club. I would bring your social security card just in case.
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When you’re getting lots of money thrown at you on stage do you pick it up or is there someone picking it up for you. If you pick it up where do you put it since it’s so much?
It depends on the club. The club will either sweep it up and put it in a bag for you or you will put it in your own bag.
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Hey! Really appreciate your post!! I’m interested in doing this as a part time job as i get through uni, but I’m worried they won’t take me – I don’t exactly have the perfect body type. I’m more on the plus side. Do you think I can still work in this? xx
I wanna start dancing but I’m 5’8 and I was wondering if that would put me at a disadvantage
Thinking about stopping in and makin a few hoe tips, liked that😉 my only
Concerns are I’ve had a baby about 5 years ago and I’m not totally in shape and I still have that saggy tummy that most mommies get after birth. Really need this blessing at this time in life. Do you think I’m good enough. I’m not huge or anything but I’m not small either?? Let me know.
Thanks Ms. lady
I’ve thought about being a stripper for 10 years now. I was convinced to go the conventional route but it just doesn’t make the bills. I want to spend time with my kids and have some luxuries in life and savings. My question is, how to I set myself apart from others. Everybody has their own beauty. I don’t want to be a complete bitch but I want to be assertive and treat my coworkers well. Do gifts and acts of kindness work in this industry?
I’m worried to not scrounge enough money for university so I wanted to dance during school, they’re not going to expect me to be climbing upside Down on a pole right?
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Okay so I’ve been wanting to strip for a while now and i would be doing so in Chicago.. any clubs you think would be great to start out in? That values there employees, doesn’t expect a huge tip out, and has good crowd. I can dance I’ve never had a problem in that department but I’ve never worked in this industry so I’m never to get fucked over. And typically how much do you pay in taxes?
Hi Jordan,
I wish I could help you, but I’ve never personally danced in Chicago (yet). When I’m in a new city, I just look at the IG pages of clubs in the area and get a feel for the club that way. As far as taxes… strippers are independent contractors, most don’t pay taxes and others get professional help to do so.
I’m going in for an audition soon, any tips I’ve been having so much anxiety about it
Hi Cari,
I have a whole post dedicated to work anxiety that you can check out!
I really want to become a stripper I’ve always been a dancer but not a stripper dancer. I’m super nervous cause I don’t know if I’m built for it but I want to try it bad. Any tips
Tiffany,
You’ll never know until you try! Just go for it! ❤️
I want to start stripping but I have bad skin. Sometimes I get a few pimples on my back and my face has texture. I’m so self conscious about it but idk what to do
Kara,
Very few people have “perfect skin!” Don’t let that hold you back!
Hi, my name is Pamela and I am considering stripping on the side of my regular job. I have a lot of student loan dept that I need to pay off and my job just isn’t cutting it. I have a 7-year-old son, and I have stretch marks on my belly do you think this will affect me being hired?
Pamela,
I know many moms who dance and their stretch marks don’t hold them back! You’ll be fine!
Hey there! I’m wondering, is 30 too old to START stripping? I’m physically fit, and have taken okay care of my skin. My goal is to spend more time with my daughter, while earning a good living. What do you think? 🙂
Hi Apple,
I think you’ve got this!! I worked with successful women of all ages in many different clubs!
You literally just helped me alot. I was so stuck in how to start and get out there. Things aren’t going too well financially ,so recently I’ve been thinking about dancing and I have a really good support team that’s encouraging me to start and I just wanna say these tips will be very helpful for me. You gained a subscriber and also a new bestieeee because we bestfriends now sis. Thanks alot and I’ll be taking your advice. 🙂
Yayayayay!! So glad I could help you out, bestie!!
I am looking at starting a dancing career, on the side of my full time job.
I have no experience and would require training. Though I do love dancing!
I am just wondering: I am a beautiful curvy size 12/14 with a little waist, natural big bust and a hourglass figure, do you think I would do well in this industry? Or is dancing mainly reserved for smaller girls?
I’d love and appreciate your insight! X
Hi Toni,
Thick girls are big $$$ makers in our industry! I say go for it!
Girl thank you so much this post helped out so much! Also helped me build my confidence a little more too I worked for the first time last week only 4 hrs didn’t know much and was very scared reading this helped me understand a little more plus I most definitely know now to keep my money in order and what I spend on etc especially for tax reasons. Wish me luck for this week!!!
You got this, Cheyenne!! My first shift or two I definitely just watched as well, but I know you’ll get the hang of it all soon!
I audition for the first time tomorrow , but I’m a little nervous . This will only be temporarily until I get back on my feet . But I’m Tall and petite ,do you think the guys will like me ? And who says I may be good at pole dancing ? Can I just dance & strip do I literally have to be on the pole? And also if you don’t have breaks in between the couple of songs you have to dance to .. what do you do when your body gets tired and you’re in the middle of a lap dance or on the stage ? You can’t just stand there😂 lol and also have you ever danced while being on your period ? (As in do you still dance & wear tampons or do you just take that time off?)
Imani,
Don’t be nervous, I’m sure you’re gonna kill it!! Pole skills are not required at all to make money. With breaks, you kinda just have to build up your stamina! I’ll never forget the time a dude got 10 lap dances in a row from me with no break… My body was so fatigued but you just have to keep thinking about that $$$. I dance on my period often, just wear a tampon and trim the string so that it’s not non-existent and can’t be seen lol. Sometimes, I do just take off too tho!
Hi! So I’m thinking of stripping to help pay for college and I was wondering what was the view on strippers with glasses? Should I look into contacts or am I ok?
Also, as far ad getting your body ready, what parts of the body would you suggest focusing on more?
Sally,
I work in my glasses OFTEN. It’s a cute angle to play on! I do both tbh, glasses and contacts depending on my mood. Body wise, I would just focus on the tummy area. My PERSONAL philosophy is to strive for tight not necessarily flat ya know? I will say though that there is definitely money to be made from EVERY body type!
Hi, I’m not from the US but I wanted to move there soon. I’m alone and the only thing that came to my money to earn enough money to live and to make music (that is actually my main dream) is stripping (not for a long term). But 1. I’m not thick (thin neather) 2. I’ve never tried to dance, even if I think I have a predisposition 3. I DONT wanna suck dicks or have sex with strangers in exchange for money at all. Would you give me some advice? (+ do men only watch you dancing or do they touch your body parts?)
*to my mind
SORRY my grammar’s pretty bad
Ladies. You worry too much. Am I too thick, am I too skinny, am I too old, I have stretch marks, my tits sag, my tits are too small, my tits are too big, I don’t want to suck, and on and on it goes. It doesn’t matter to us. We want to see you naked. End of story. Stop worrying and start stripping!
EVERYONE NEEDS TO READ WHAT JIM SAID!!! Hopefully, since it’s coming from a customer and not me (another stripper) it will actually resonate with some of y’all.
Rebecca,
While you don’t have to have sex with anyone (legally you CAN’T), customers both watch and touch you. This is stripping, you can’t get around being touched or getting naked.
My first night dancing is approacing quickly and im scared shitless haha! Excited very, but nervous. Im trying to build social media pages for my dancer, but when i hit the ‘Bio’ section i come up blank. What should i include on say an IG dancer profile who has never performed before but has been around the scene? Gah!! See!! Haha stupid dumb over thinking brain!
Help aha!
Hmmm. I would look at the bio’s of other strippers on IG and just try to put your own spin on it. Most strippers don’t actually put that they’re strippers in their bio so I don’t think you need to worry too much about it!
I need a Friend I have NO FRIENDS anyone would like to be I am going to start sometime this month and I need a support and someone to talk to .. it’s hard and I’m moving out of town for the first time .
Chan,
You’ve got friends and support here in the Half & Bad community! Instagram is a great way to meet other dancers in your city, as well!
Hey thank you for making room to talk about this freely. I’m 23 I have a baby face like I literally look like I’m 16 I’m not very curvy at all but I have a little butt back there. I feel like I don’t fit the archetype to be an exotic dancer. But I’m more than willing to try to make extra money to pay off my tuition.
Hi Tai,
AnyBODY can be a stripper! Just go for it! I also look super young to most people, but it’s never really been a problem for me.
Hi ,
Thank you for being so transparent and relatable. I’m 29 years old and pretty much in the same financial rut as everyone else who starts out stripping is, I guess. My concern is of course my look, (which is about 5’6, 185 lbs, hourglass shape, wide hips , small waste, big ass, titties are a little saggy tho and I have the mother pouch😞) and also the fact I feel I’m too old to start stripping. I think also it’s the perfect time in some type of weird way (few months before i turn30) so my plan is to get some money up, and stop in September the month I’ll turn 30. Can you tell me if a pretty girl with a young face with not a perfect body at 29 can make it in The strip club?
Jaz, I think you’ll be fine from the way you described yourself!!
I will be 18 in July and start a junior college in August. I’m thinking about starting a doing a stripping job on some nights to make money… but I would want no extras at all. Like I would want to dance and be “off limits” . Would that be possibly?
18 year old- clothes stay on-(two piece) -no touching as in going to the back at all?
Shay,
If you want to be a stripper then you’re going to need to STRIP. What you’re asking is the equivalent of going to a Starbucks and being like “I wanna work here, but I don’t wanna have to make any coffee drinks.” I’m not saying you have to do extras, but if you want to be a stripper you will have to: give lap dances (aka letting customers touch you), take your clothes OFF, and then do all of that on stage as well. If not, you’ll either make NO money or get fired. If you’re not okay with that then stripping isn’t for you. And that’s okay!!
I love this, I cant wait to read more!!!! I’ve been looking to be a temp. Stripper to get that cash rolling in so I can go to school, you know the usual. I’m confident in my body, but im not confident with dancing. Havent danced in front of people before. Any advice (youtube, classes etc.?) on how to get these hips swaying and that confidence boosting.
Sam,
Practice at home!! Just get your body used to physically dancing, it will help a lot if your body knows what to do even when your brain gets nervous. I would definitely look on youtube for inspiration!
Hi! So i’ve been working at a desk job, from home, for 5 years! It’s been so long since i’ve been in heels and that job depressed me so badly, i rarely worked out. I just tried to do stripper moves by dancing in stilettos and i was sweating and could barely do moves! Am i doomed or should i just start working out in heels for a couple months to be prepared?
Em,
Dancing does take some stamina! Just keep practicing and even start doing some working out on the side! I would definitely focus on building strength in your calf/thighs and heart and lung health!
This is so much more relevant information than what I have been finding, thank you so, so much!!
I’ve been interested in getting into dancing for several years now, but I’m finally at a point where I can actually start working towards it as a career. I am getting in a bit better shape and to a bit higher fitness level so I can reduce the initial physical stress of a full shift.
I love $$ and freedom, my husband supports it, and I love being sexy 😉 anyone who doesn’t like it can fuck off LMAO
Can’t wait to read the rest of your posts!!
Do full fledge lesbians strip for men?
Why wouldn’t they?
Hi, I live in Ireland & have been thinking of stripping for a long time. I really want to give it a try?
Where do I even start? I’ve taken a couple of pole dancing classes. Do I contact my nearest strip club?
Hi Amy!
I would definitely do some research on social media about good clubs in your area, once you’ve one or two that you like, go ahead and visit the club as a customer and once you’re ready, ask to see the hiring manager! Good luck!!
Omg I’m so happy I found this blog !! I’ve always wanted to be a dancer ! But due to my love choices, was never given the freedom to do so. But I’m 24 now, my mentality is much different from when I was younger, which I think may be good for me if I step into this world. The thing is, is I have ZERO stage performance experience. How do I get hired in a work field I have no experience in ? Is it possible to be my own boss & do private shows or something of that sort ?
Hi Shizumi! No worries on lack of experience, most of us start out with ZERO stage experience and have no “dance backgrounds.” You’ll be fine! I’m not sure what you mean by private shows, but private parties are a thing, but I don’t usually recommend those for safety reasons and due to the fact that they’re very popular anymore!
I’m petite and skinny I want to start dancing but I’m not sure I have the body. I’m literally a size 2.
Girl. Skinny girls generally have it easy in strip clubs. You’ll be fine!
Hello, is there a certain age cap? Also, is it tough, in your opinion, for a brown girl to get hired at a strip club that caters to white men?
Hi Shaunda! There usually isn’t an age cap, hiring managers mostly go off of how a person looks! It’s definitely tougher for women of color in this industry, periodt. Don’t be discouraged though!! Women of color are often some of the highest earners in white clubs!
Hi, I’m really in need of money, I just turned 18 and am considering becoming a stripper. How do I go about getting the job? Do i walk in? Do I call? What do i wear if i get an interview? Do i need to have a ~dance~ routine?
Thank you so much for this!
I hope I can Hustle 🖤🥰😘
Hi Ladies. Im a 33 year old dude but i will tell you the reason i would go to a strip club is for the VARIETY of girls and personalities. Some days i am in the mood for big boobs, other days im in the mood for small boobs, Milf boobs or Gilfs 🙂 Usually id like to see some long nipples or sometimes big nipples or tiny nipples. Sometimes i see something that i dont expect to see and its great. Most guys necessarily hate a female body, especially if theyre drunk! My only TURNOFF is a BAD ATTITUDE but some guys like those girls with bad attitudes too.
I think the most important thing to do is to enjoy the experience for what it is. Have some fun, make some memories. Life is too short to be worried about the small shyt. Just Do IT! Do it the way you like it. You might look back 20-30 years and say WOW i cant believe i was able to do that! If it doesnt work out, then at least you had the guts to give it your all.
Edit: Most guys *(dont)* necessarily hate a female body…
Thanks for your comment Joe!! I always love when customers give their input because it helps get the message across (hopefully) and makes the experience better for BOTH of us!
I called a club and they told me i can come in any day between 6pm-7pm for an “interview”. they just asked my age and told me that. what can i expect to happen at an “interview”? will i be dancing? should i bring shoes and something to dance in? or does interview mean “sit down and chat about what makes me want this job and why i should be hired” kinda deal? thanks!
Rose, most of the time it’s a physical interview where they give you a look over and you might have to get on stage!
Hello! I’m heavily considering dancing but i’m still a little skeptical. When customers tip money on the stage, do you pick it up immediately or at the end of your shift? Or does someone come pick it up for you? Thanks!
Alyssa, it depends on the club and the amount. If it’s manageable for you to pick it up, you do it, but if it’s a lot the club will sweep it up for you. Some clubs give it straight to you and other clubs hold on to it till the end of the night but be weary of clubs like that because they usually take a cut of your money!!
Hello, I’m Bunny. Idk if this is still active, but I’d love some advice on getting hired at clubs that seem to have a certain…preference? I’m in Colorado, and black girls getting hired out here isn’t really a thing…I’ve been to a few auditions at different places and been rejected, (but so have all the black girls I’ve auditioned with, and many have had lots of skill!) and I guess I’m just wondering… should I give up? Is there a post on here about that? I’m not sure what else to do at this point..any advice would be greatly appreciated! (If not, that’s ok too of course!) I love your blog and all the advice btw!
I think #1 trait is a good Personality or attitude. If you had the 2 hottest dancers side by side, which would you choose? Even if you dont have a good personality, some people can hide it with a nice smile and some enthusiasm.
Bunny, don’t ever give up!! Have you tried out urban clubs? I know it sucks, but black women have to try SO much harder and look 10 times better. I wish I could help you more, but being a light skinned mixed girl, it’s not my place and not my experience to give advice on this subject (bc colorism). I am trying to find a guest poster to write on this topic/give advice bc it’s definitely something that impacts my readers!!
I’ve been considering dancing, I have heels & a pole at home. Just feeling a little intimidated by the entire aspect. Great advice tho!!
M
Are you in California?
I’m in Texas!
Maddy, just go for it!! It’s scary, but you can do it!!
Hey girl, I’m working on trying to talk to customers, but I’m so limited I can only get into legitimate conversations with a certain type of people, everyone else gets an awkward silence after every conversation starter I think of, any advice for connecting with a bigger variety of customers? Also, how do I keep “no’s” from affecting my confidence? It literally costs me money for a couple hours because I’m so nervous after more than one no 🤦♀️
Samara, check out my post on talking to customers here: http://halfandbad.com/2019/03/13/how-to-talk-to-customers-51-conversation-starters-tips-for-strippers/
What’s your Social media ?! I need to ask you something!!
@halfandbad
Hi, I wanted to know how you found where you wanted to strip? I’m thinking of starting but am having a hard time finding places that don’t require the entertainment to be 21+…
Amy, I started when I was 19 and just had to start at clubs that didn’t have a minimum age requirement. I searched the Internet and called around!
does anyone know any strip clubs where you arent allowed to wear lengerie only tight many dresses?
Thanks xoxo
Sienna, in strip clubs you strip and get naked… you can’t get around getting that part!
I fucking loved this! I want to become a dancer and this just helped me 🥰💋
I’m so glad this helped!
If anybody is from the Northern California Area, I’m currently looking for New or veteran Dancers to begin working a few private shows sometime in a few months and hopefully in a New Strip club eventually. If you are shy but you think you have the talent, then maybe ill start you off in a support role until you are ready. I will also be looking for some models for paid photoshoots(masks possible). No funny business, im not a creep, im all about business and respect.
Here is my new Instagram, send me a message and we lets see what happens.
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Again, anybody in California: Between Sacramento, Stockton, Modesto, and the Bay Area, I would be glad to hear from you.
Straight up babe. I love you for this
Thanks, Allie! ❤️
Hey I know I’m a year late lol but I really need this money for real I have goals and plans I want in life. I was wondering if I get extra things like tattoos on my thighs and my butt also a few piercings would that be a big effect on my tips? I love how you keep it real and that you reply to all the comments. Another issue is I have a boyfriend and I know he won’t approve of it but we really need the money so I’m trying to figure out how can I do this on the down low? I was thinking about going to Texas to go strip! Thanks love ❤️
Hi Kennedi, there’s definitely a lane for girls with tattoos and piercings! They can definitely boost your tips, but they can also turn customers away, so IMO it will probably even out! Just do what you want with your body and as long as you’re confident the tips will come!! Tell your boyfriend to suck it up!! He’ll be onboard as soon as that money starts coming in 😉 If you need to do it on the down low then just lie and say you bartend! Hope it all works out for you! ❤️
Hey hope all is well,, I’m planning on stripping in New York,, I’m doing stripping cause I got to pay bills but most importantly get closer to my American dream,, never done this but I have a money plan I now wat I want and now I’m getting it,, I want to know wat are the details on how to make this money faster ,, got talent as an artist,, fashion designer and got lots of energy but classy with it people see me a professional but yet in my quiet bipolar ways,, I’m hear you make a name for myself getting to the top but classy n freaky all for it but I’m always trying to get the real tea,, I want to be successful and then head to my next plan this helping me grind my money and get my name out there,, I Kno I’m not the only one thinking this way so how would I speak different but original with this field
Hey im im 20 going on 21 I want to be a stripper but im a mom i have mom boobs im really skinnyi just feel like im not thick enough im not the best dancer ethier but all.your tips where very helpful
Honey, you’ll never know if you don’t try! Just go for it and see what happens!
I am thinking of becoming a stripper to earn some extra cash and push myself through college, but I get stage fright. Like can someone perform on stage with more than 1 girl or do you have to do lone dances? I am confident with my body but im not sure I have the confidence to be the ONLY centre of attention when im not even sure how to do a strip dance. Also, when you apply and go interview, what goes down? like do they ask you to take your clothes off and dance for them before they hire you? ADVICE PLEASE!!!
When you strip do you have to show yourself topless like boobs out and everthing? Like im okay with lingerie and revealing bras and such but I don’t know how I feel about going full on nude?
Thank you so much for taking you time out to school us…Haha.
I’ve lost 10 lbs but still little jiggly in the stomach. 35-32-44 measurements to be exact. But I’m ready and I want to make some money to get my body right, as natural as possible.
My question to you is: Will my stomach matter? I’d prob wear high waisted or one piece clothing until I get the rest off. What do you know of strippers with a little stomach on them?
I’m also from a small city and everyone knows me. So, I plan on looking for work in another major city about 2 hours away. I was thinking I should start at a smaller club or should I go straight to a higher end club?
I’ve been practicing a lot in the mirror but you mentioned that’s there’s nothing like getting your practice on stage! Please advise thank you <33
Thank you! <3
Lalay, your stomach most likely won’t matter at all! I personally went straight to a higher end club, but I learnt the most about stripping in the smaller clubs!
What if I want to become a stripper and am ok with people touching me, but I don’t want to have sex and suck their dicks. Is that ok? I realize getting touched is in the package, but I also know that different clubs have different rules. I’m also fine with people seeing me naked and doing sexy things with me body. I just don’t want TK have to touch them and have sex with them.
Hey, strippers aren’t full service sex workers. Some do both, but stripping doesn’t involve having sex with customers in anyway.
Great article. Learned a lot here. I recently started an apparel business and my target market will be female entertainers. This includes, dancers, strippers etc. I would like to find a brand ambassador but I’m unable to provide financial compensation at this time. Compensation will be in the form of merchandise. What’s the best way to reach out or find an ambassador. I’m thinking that it’s best to partner with someone just starting out? Additionally, are you able to share some pain points ? I would like to address issues by offering products and maybe services to them if possible. Would love to hear from you and I’m ok with you emailing me.
Appreciate it.
Hi T, are you a stripper owned business?
Okay so I’m really interested in becoming a stripper and I have a few questions like are all strip clubs nude , and how does getting paid work once you leave the pole what happens to you money on stage
Hi Tiara, check out my other posts are stripping and you’ll find the answer to your questions! ❤️
I had my first shift ever ever at a high end strip club in London (UK) last night and it was … hard. I made very, very little money.
I’m 5’7″, ‘pretty’, slim body, big boobs etc etc, I looked pretty good, tight red dress, matching red bra and thong set – but as you say making money as a stripper is 60% hustle and 40% looks. I was approached almost immediately by a (lovely!) man and gave him two dances but didn’t really up-sell him and his friend seemed to want to leave, which they did. After that, nothing – literally nothing – aside from one time waster who monopolised my time and conversation (my fault, I know).
Here are the problems aside from my general inexperience: whenever men walk in, all the girls fall on them like vultures. They (7, 8, 10, 12 girls) crowd around them all smiling, grabbing, speaking at the same time, this seems to work on older, drunk men. All the girls know each other already and I realised that my fear wasn’t of rejection from men – it was of what the other girls would say/do if I was perceived to be snaking them. There were even some looks at me when the guy walked right up to me early on.
Secondly: it’s a bit harder to make cash than in the US. There is no tip out but the club take 50% of your earnings and we have to pay £20 a night to work. We obviously don’t have a ‘make it rain’ system here, pole/stage work isn’t very important (you don’t make money for stage shows, only private dances which are £25). Private booths are £200 for half an hour (double for an hour, half for 15 mins and so forth) so this is where the money is made – however, London has VERY strict no contact rules and this is enforced so taking someone to a private booth does not have the same caché as the ‘champagne room’. The club is upscale – there aren’t *that many* customers but the ones who come in are rich AF and drop a ton of money. There are tons of girls.
Aside from the fact that I think my private dances might not be spectacular (I need to practice), how do I gain some traction in the club? The house mum is nice, the girls are intimidating, I have no friends at the club and no experience! On the plus side the club staff seem to like me – one bouncer told me to befriend the other girls a bit… I’m really not sure what to do. Last night was a bit deflating although surprisingly I found the time wasting man far more upsetting than giving my first lapdance … I quite enjoyed it. I didn’t go on stage last night but I think I will have to tonight.
Sorry for the really long post, any help would be really appreciated. Laura xx
Hi Laura! Good for you for surviving your first shift!! The best way to get traction is to just show up to work consistently. Once you start doing that, you’ll get the hang of it more, maybe make a few friends, and customers will be more comfortable spending their money on you!
Hey my name is Anglee, but my neck name is Bossi. I have been dancing exotically for half of my life. I’ve always wanted to be a stripper. Only thing is that I’m kind of small chested. But I truly wanna be a stripper, it’s my fantasy. I like performing to all types of music and I’m very friendly
Its possible to stripe only for 5 days in a month or two? Bc I live out of America but it is possible for me to be there every month or every 2 month bc im a flight attendant.
And what to do to start to be a stripper in LA full time for 5 days ou 7.???
Waiting feedback… thks
Hi Jenny, you could strip one day a year if you wanted to! Different clubs do have different rules though. I would suggest NOT telling the club you’re a travel dancer/from out of town.
This helped so much more than ANY of the YouTube vids I’ve watched. thank you.
I have never danced or even auditioned to be a dancer. However I feel i can make a lot of money, at least until I get through school. I am a white 5’6″ young woman (22) with freckles, a nice ass but almost no titty (B cup)
I know that I’m a good dancer, and the titty situation is not necessarily a bad thing. However I have a pixie cut. Is that gonna be an issue? Should I get a wig?
Hi Stacy, I’ve worked with many girls who have pixie cuts! Try it out first! Then try a wig and see which is better for you.
Hi I’m 18 and have reached the point in my life where I have to do things on my own. The problem is I live in a very “white out” city Grand Rapids Michigan and the smaller clubs we have here has way more rules which still equals out to it being a lot harder to get money in the clubs here. I tried a amature night out and it wasn’t tooo bad just as a dancer over all dancing in general I’m not that good at so it brings my confidence down there’s one club here parkway tropics maybe u can look it up so u know what I’m talking about lol. It’s a more white club and I guess my question is how do I go about dancing with this type of situation. I’m not that good at dancing but I do need the money. Don’t get me wrong I am working a nine to five. It’s just not adding up to what I need to pay my bills. I’m not like most teens. I don’t have the help the average teenage girl would. I’m doin it all on my own no kids no parents to help me. The club is a really small club it’s those clubs where u can’t show 50% of your ass no titties out etc. I know it is some money there. But I just don’t know how to go about actually doing it or being confident where I don’t got it. It’s not like we have urban clubs all which is “2” of our clubs are white clubs
What pole would you recommend putting inside of an apartment?
Hi!! I woke up this morning (it’s 12:04pm where I am) with some heavy anxiety. The kind in your tummy that makes you wanna throw up. I kept having dreams of me in the strip club. I woke and had to do something to soothe it and I found your website. After about 6 articles I feel so much better and so much relief! Thank you, and please keep it up! Your tips are so helpful and life saving. Xoxo
Hey, I love this post. I’m very young and literally on my own, I have people that need to depend on me. I’ve been thinking about stripping for longer than I’ve needed to, but I’m not sure if I can keep it up or get on the pole itself. I’m not a really big person my pants size is 15. I have sisterlocks too so I’m not sure if I’d make any money at all ☠️
I’m 18, and is it required that you get on the pool?? I feel like that’d turn out bad for me
I am a white girl who is pretty with tattoos and piercings.😏. pretty in the face but the baby I had 2 months ago fucced up my shape and boobs. My belly has loose skin and stretch marks 🤦. My waist is now even with my hips .. I’m about to start stripping this week n want to know what outfit ideas you have 🤷
im becoming a dental assist and so is my best friend / future roommate and we want striping to be our side job
I work 40hrs a week during the day at a corporate job, do clubs let you pick or work around your current schedule?
This truly helped me
I really appreciate the advice as I’ll be starting soon, but I do have a couple of questions! One, what do you do if someone touches you in an area that you aren’t okay with? And two, I have some somewhat visible stretch marks on my thighs and butt from having a baby, is this a major issue for men to look at or is it not that big of a deal?
I love this 😩 I plan on moving down south in a few weeks & there’s a strip club right around the way. I’m really thinking about trying to get in & work there .. I already love to twerk 😂😂😂
Hey I am looking into becoming a stripper I have a time frame I have given myself and want to be able to start soon. But I have been trying to find the strip clubs that would be best for me I am 20 years old and would be new to it , my biggest fear is of being mediocre wasting not only my time but others. Any advice?
Hi,
I am getting into stripping here pretty soon! I was just curious how you
Maintain your cooter, how to keep it soft and STAY soft and smooth (I get waxed) but o have to let my hair grow back out to continue getting waxed, do men/ women dislike hair? How should I handle that?
Vanessa, I get waxed and just wait it out. Unless you’re doing extras, no one should be touching your coochie like that anyways!! Also, 100% of customers don’t care about a little hair as long as it’s well maintained! You’ll be fine regardless of what you do.
Is a stripper required to give out lap dances every time she goes to work
Hello H&B
Ive always wanted to strip, since ive been 15. Im turning 23 next week and me and my boyfriend of 4 years, are having money problems. Ive told him my secret dream of being a stripper back when i was 19 and hes completely against it. And i dont blame him. I would kill him if i ever seen him undress infront of other women.
I really love him, but ive been feeling so trapped & held back from doing what i really want to do.
Would Stripping be enough of a reason to leave a happy relationship?
Are there clubs that accept strippers that don’t do sex / get naked?
Hi love ,
I too am considering stripping as it’s always been something I wanted to do. I’m very thin though , so I’m concerned with if I’ll make money or even be attractive enough to make it past the audition. I’m not crackhead skinny lol , but I live in the south and I’m definitely considered to be petite. I’ve been told I have a nice body , I’m just small.
Hey girl you actually made my day I couldn’t stop laughing I’m a 23 y/o girl who’s been thinking about stripping since the age of 14 because I’ve always wanted my own money I remember finding out about blac chyna at 14 & just respecting her hustle so much the only reason why I didn’t get into stripping was because I was going through a lot of bs in my personal life and I got into a relationship at 18 with a guy who was waaaay older than me and kinda knocked down my confidence and “friends” who wer not really supportive of my goals etc I’m from London so I remember being 20 and passing a well known strip club and the owner of the club who was a woman and one of the security men wer proper watching me and it got me thinking but I wasn’t sure but now at 23 I’m 100% sure it’s what I want I have plans to own my own fashion brand in the future and you know the business world ain’t cheap so money is defiantly essential so far I’ve got 2 jobs and need another 2 side hustles and stripping is defo one I love having my own cash lol and it’s one sexy fun job thank you so much for this you boss lady and God bless you and good luck on the rest of your journey.x
How much you think you made on ur first night/week?
I’m looking to become an exotic dancer but super conscience of my little mom pouch and stretch marks … I know it’ll effect some stuff but will it effect a lot?
I was 19 when I left my small town in Texas to be a dancer in Los Angeles. I had a friend that sold weed, he had a girlfriend. They are some real hustlers. I was working in a sandwich shop when he offered to fly me out, and make money with him. I loved LA in the day, it made me feel like I could be anything. But every night ultimately, I was miserable. Nobody know what I was really doing, I didn’t make much money. But as pretty much the only black girl, with only 2 pole classes for experiences… I pretty much was undesirable. I hardly had hustle, shit was really hard for me. I did so much research but it’s nothing like having the actual experience as you stated. As true as that is, I wish I came across this post at the time. I woulda found a little comfort in it cause I learned all these things fast. But developing the hustle was the hardest. I felt like a failure. Im down bad and on my ass again not knowing what Ima do. What brought me to even googling this is knowing I can’t hit rock bottom again. As soon as I figure out how Im gonna keep up with my look im going to go back in it. I have hardly anything and nothing to lose. I have to keep that in mind when I go back in. But also have the mind that Im the baddest bitch in it to get it, and not look like what Im going through. I hope to have a real conversation with you one day. If you ever read this I’d like to let you know how my life goes. Thank you for being honest and raw in this post. Hope to chat. Jeighlan
Jeighlan, DM me on IG (@halfandbad) or shoot me an email (morgan@halfandbad.com) and we can chat xxx
Maybe you know someone who’s a dancer? You could get some advice from them. Have you tried anything closer to you. It’s not hard to keep up a look. Remember these are men they’re simple creatures. But you definitely want to sell the fantasy or look the part. Pole dancing isn’t everything just one side. I’ve been to clubs where they didn’t even have a pole. That’s where the entertainer comes in.
Perfect.you covered everything. I wanna know about your experience the 1st night
I’m 25, a single mom of a 4 year old, and lately I’ve just been really giving it some thought about becoming a dancer. For the money of course, but I’m nervous about people coming into the club that I know. Has this ever happened to you?
How do you take care of yourself mentally and turn work into an empowering experience rather than feeling like your being used?
I really needed this! Thank you so much! I’ve been selling nudes online and I hate doing the mundane, so I was looking into starting to dance. The nude market has really boosted my confidence and I find it quite a turn on, which is a big deal considering where I started. That’s why I was wanting to start dancing. I tried to do it last year, but I did so without any research, very little as far as clothing and shoes, literally no other work options, and two different clubs offered to let me dance…One was really overcrowded with people and dancers, so I passed, and went to a private only based club…no alcohol, no public dances, no actually dancing at all…Just rooms. It was a horrible and unsafe place, though the owner was kind. I ended up being sexually assaulted and not even making enough money to make it worth it, because I didn’t have the confidence or demanding atmosphere that said “give me money” only “take advantage of me”, so in a sense my spirit was broken on trying to be a dancer. I’m a lot stronger now, and as I stated I love doing the taking my clothes off and showing my body thing now, so this is the type of info I’ve been needing. It’s hard to find where I’m at. Thanks so much, again! This was a very helpful read!
You’re fuc*ing great thank you so much
Hey! I love this post, it was really informative and HONEST. I used to joke about being a stripper all the time in school – but I also always thought it would be fun and empowering. I love dancing, I don’t know if I’m good at it, but I love doing it.
My only concern is that even though I’m 25 I look really young…. I have DD’s and thick thighs and curves but my face looks really young. I’ve been told I look 17 sometimes…. is this going to hurt my chances with customers? Looking too young ? Or do you think I could somehow play this to my advantage?
Hey,
I’m thinking of becoming a stripper to gain more 💸 while I finish school. I have 2 larger tattoos. Are most clubs accepting of body art?
Great advice
Hey love, I’m looking into going into stripping.. I have really large breasts (34DDD) , nice hips, and a medium sized booty, but I do have a lil bit of a tummy. I’m also only 5’2; Do you think that’ll take away from the rest of my body? What can I wear to accentuate my chest and hips?
Halfandbad.. please help me. I am 18 and I am in college and I want to strip to pay for school and get my own car and quit my stupid job at a gas station..I’m pretty and have natural DD boobs..but my ass isn’t round or big and I don’t have the flattest stomach in the world..I wantsd to fix my body beforehand but I can’t if I ain’t got the money.
How many songs do you dance for
I had my very 1st shift this past Tues after labor day. I’ve been crying ever since. I just feel that I really need to work on being more seductive and confident. I thought I wouldn’t go back but Im not going to give up, at this point I really need the income for bills so I just have to keep trying. I love how you said experience is the best teacher and I just have to practice and stick with it. Just now reading your post today and I TRULY APPRECIATE YOU for sharing this info!! I do feel more confident about my 2nd shift tomorrow. Your tips and advice will stay with me.
I wanted to know what to do about the stage floor? When I went out for my 1st set the floor was super super slick as if baby oil was poured all over it and I could barely keep my balance without sliding around. Is there anyting I can do when the floor is super slick? Is that the norm for stage floors in the strip club? I was so scared I was going to fall. I felt so embarrassed up there not being able to move the way I wanted to, I don’t want to cling to the pole every time I’m on stage. Thank you so much!!
~Peace & Love
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Hey girl, I’n 24 and moved to Vegas in April of this year and just got a job as a stripper yesterday (my very first job ever). The company that hired me is giving me a bit of training/orientation tomorrow (Monday) but I start Wednesday night!!! Ahhhhh!!! Needless to say as introvert with anxiety I can tell that this blog is a godsend already. THANK YOU!!! I’ll be pouring over your posts from now on <3
Hey girl, Im 24 and moved to Vegas in April of this year and just got a job as a stripper yesterday (my very first job ever). The company that hired me is giving me a bit of training/orientation tomorrow (Monday) but I start Wednesday night!!! Ahhhhh!!! Needless to say as introvert with anxiety I can tell that this blog is a godsend already. THANK YOU!!! I’ll be pouring over your posts from now on <3
Hi! I’m Ale (female) …. I don’t have much of a chest or a booty
I’m working on it though!!! I’m a really good dancer and a tease… Do you think my “Flattness” Will affect my stripping career a lot?
Hi I’m an 18 year old freshman in college and I currently work at a fast food restaurant. The money sucks, I’m mad deep in loans. I just want to know what time do I go in? Also I’m sorry if you mentioned this but do I have to get naked? I just need some money fast. Thank you for this article it’s been the most informing one!
I really need help with everything I’m tired of working a 9 to 5 I have two kids I need more money and I always have wanted to do it but I didnt wanna get judge.m but I really wanna do it
What’s your city n state?
Hello! I’m considering dancing to pay bills and save up for a house while I finish school and work somewhere lower paying as a resume builder, so I’m basically looking to be in it for 2-3 years and don’t plan to start until next year because I want to prepare. I’m short but I have big boobs and a big butt so I think there’s something to work with. My biggest concern is I’m in a smaller city with the larger cities in my state being 3 hours away each. Do you have any advice?
Thank you for writing this. I started dancing about 5 months ago but ever so often my thoughts still rush through my head and thoughtful words of courage are so helpful.
Have a good one <3
Hi I really loved this! I’m 17 years old and I always thought of being a stripper while I go to school. I also want to be a stripper because I want to help my mom out with money. My mom is 34 years old and she’s a stripper, well she’s took a break from work because of some personal issues that made her loose her job. But I’ve been kind of hinting to my mom that I wanted to become a stripper because I wanted to help her out. Well I kind of told her that I wanted to be a bottle service girl and she was supportive about the idea, she actually told me that i could go to the club she use to work at. She use to earn good money but I think us together would make great money combined. I am a little bit self conscious but that’s only because I tend to get shy in front of people. I also don’t know if my mom will be ok with me being a stripper
I’ve been stripping for a week now and this advice has definitely helped me out, girl!!! Much love! ♥️♥️♥️
I really enjoy reading your post 🙂 I’m 18 I’ve been thinking about stripping for a while now but I’m a Chunky girl, I’ve also watched a lot of videos on YouTube about stripping an all. I got a pretty face, Fat ass, nice feet, an average boobs(also my nips Are pierced) but chubby looking. I’m working a low paying job and I feel like I need some extra cash 💰 idk what to start off with or what help! 💯😫
hello i want to go into stripping but i have stretch marks on my thighs
hey im 18 and want to pursue stripping/dancing as as a career im confident that even though im inexperienced i will learn the hustle and the moves/pole dancing the only thing that literally bothers me is that i have a young looking face im hispanic. i dont have much body by that i mean i have an ass its there, boobs arnt small there about a b almost c, my body just isnt impressively curvy , im just not sure im going to look right dancing. I am serious tho im saving for pole classes and and outfit and pair of pleasures. I do want to pursue it as a career forever job until i can no longer, im from houston and know how i will need to hustle it, from competition of other females, i dont plan on doing any extras im already putting that as a number 1 boundery/priority, and feel im up for it and strong enough to be a dancer, im just not sure about my body its not very curvy my ass and tits are aight im not super skinny, but im not sure ima be able to make it in the black urban clubs. i really dont wanna be a dancer in white clubs. i defenitly plan on working out a few months before i join to get fit and a bit curvier.
I have been bartending at my club for 6 months and am about to transition🥳 This article helped a lot about the things i wasn’t aware of.
I’m really excited kind of. Thanks for your advice!!!
I finally brought shoes to interview in ( im a size 12 and I had to save up some cash) and an outfit.
I can’t pole dance for my life. I’ve been watching youtube videos to prepare, but i have no clue what im gonna do for the interview.
Im still new in the field and I do hope I can adopt to the environment. Thank you for sharing!
This was so helpful!!
I’m still really nervous. Any way we could become friends? 🤪😭 I plan to start dancing by Christmas but jeez I have no rythem but none of the girls do at the club I’m going to start at. Help meeeee. Email me. Message me. Somethingggg
hey i’m kitty and i recently turned 18 and i am thinking of going into stripping. i know how to dance but not how to dance on a pole. do you have to know how to do that to start working at a strip club?
Hi there so I’m wanting to become a dancer. I live in the state of MI. I could really use some pointers. Like what shoes to buy. I have wide feet. I’ve tried Pleaser’s and the shoe size versus my normal shoe size was about a 3-4 size difference. Bc I have fat fett and little toes lol. .I do appreciate this blog a lot!! Keep it up girl💕
Also I’m a considered a plus size entertainer, and I’ve already been rejected by one club which I’m not bothered with there will be more clubs. Just any help on skin care regimen, workouts to do, literally anything.
girl im 19 and i never had a good blog that i actually liked to read and i found yours off of searching this up and I LOVE YOU.. just thank you omg i will update when i get in the club! #wishmelucklol